Men with money... real money act like they dont have much at all. They pay off their house, cars and play toys and are happy.
I would call real money $5,000,000 or more in assets for a length of over 10 years. Some people call this "fuck you money" it's more than you will ever need.
Men that think they have money, the guys making $250,000 a year but have less than $500,000 in an IRA or 401K are the ones who show off their "wealth" I was guilty of this when I was in my 20s, I think most of us were. Being a wealth manager for the past decade I have seen it all...
You asked what I would consider good money. This depends on where you live. Here in Texas and Oklahoma good money is as little as $250,000 a year while in NYC or LA that jumps to $750,000 - $1M. For the same standard of living. This will put you in the top 5% of income earners and is considered good money. You certainly dont need this much to be happy or to attract a good woman. Sometimes the more you make the worse the women you attract. It's best to act poor when meeting new women, if they bail then you just saved yourself a lot of unpleasantness down the road. If the woman stays with you even if your "poor" then when you magically become better off you will still have that same awesome woman.
There is nothing worse on earth than a gold digging whore. Many here will agree with this as they have been through that. Avoid at all costs!!!!