Ways to control libido?

[CubanQuentin]

Well even beyond this situation not watching porn is always a good idea if you're not already doing it

 

[DECLAN]

Wtf I can’t believe nobody suggested the most obvious solution: switch to an ugly gf lol

 

[TurboJet]

Wtf I can’t believe nobody suggested the most obvious solution: switch to an ugly gf lol

I said side piece!

 

[readalot]

Realistically, he needs to be transparent with her that his needs aren’t being met.

I am trying a balanced 250 test and 300 tren and it's really good motivation wise, but while I like really being "ON" and just working out and being active consistently, my mind is just full of tiddies and ass.

 

[Demondosage]

I’m going to be a realist here, the frequency probably wasn’t enough before you got on test and now you’re on test. It seems to me that the best solution is to find someone that enjoys sex with you and doesn’t always have an excuse or weaponize pussy! Brother, if this is your reality now it’s going to get worse if you marry this chick.

I’ve been married for 20 years now, and I made it clear from the very beginning that I’m not the type of guy that’s going to go a couple wks without pussy, and if it wasn’t with you then you bet your ass it’s going to be with someone else who can get the job done! She tried me one night, I walked out the door at 11pm and said “fine, if you don’t want to do it then I’m going to go find some hot blonde at the strip club that’ll suck my dick!” Now, here’s the thing….I hate strip clubs, but I never go against my word because if you do that it’s instilled in their mind that you’re weak and your word ain’t worth shit! I hit the atm up that night in the same neighboring town the club is in so she would see the transaction. I got to the club but I never went inside, sort of just drove around for a while and then went home about 2am. The next day she had her hair done up, skirt on, and put it on me like crazy. In her mind I was more attractive because I didn’t give a fuck and followed through (at least so she thought)

I’ve made it clear I’m on testosterone and I have a high sex drive and I’m not going without it. Not only will I find it someplace else, the fun trips and exciting lifestyle can fall off if the pussy falls off. Ppl can judge me all they want but my marriage is a business deal where we both know our roles, I don’t live by “happy wife happy life,” I live by “take care of your husband and he will take care of you and give you a life other chicks are too stupid to understand how to achieve!” I’ve also made it clear that when her plumbing breaks if she doesn’t go to a doctor and get on HRT then I’ll get it someplace else regardless. I don’t want to be an asshole, but sex has been made very clear on expectations in my house, and it’s not unreasonable to want it about 2-3x per week consistently. The key here is you cannot be a man who can’t provide, you have to level up to a point where you could put yourself on the market tomm and get laid, they know this when they’re with it and you can’t act like a whiny bitch abt it either. The next time this shit happens you need to leave, don’t answer the phone for a couple hours, pull a couple hundred bucks out of the atm, and let her think you hit the strip club. At that point she can either turn her shit around or go kick fucking rocks! A good woman makes a stronger man, all of the weakest men that never get ass are with women who don’t know their fucking role

 

[HeatherSwanson]

I'd be doing everything you can to figure out why the Mrs doesn't want to participate.

It's been my personal experience that women are up for it a lot more than we think if you can approach it correctly.

As for the libido dropping mine has been sky high for a year since I started TRT/steroids and has not diminished. It was even ridiculous on 125mg test E per week.

I would not recommend crashing your libido. Maybe just do another gym sesh or go for a walk when she's not up for it or your starting to go crazy.

Physically leaving the house horny will trigger her mate guarding instincts lol

I've left the house and gone to work for hours in the evening after this one ex had gone to bed "yeah sorry needed to duck out for work". Passive dread is a hell of a tactic.

I made it clear to the current one, unless she's actually sick or injured... Its 5 times a week or she's gone. 5 years in still going strong.

 

[HeatherSwanson]

I’m going to be a realist here, the frequency probably wasn’t enough before you got on test and now you’re on test. It seems to me that the best solution is to find someone that enjoys sex with you and doesn’t always have an excuse or weaponize pussy! Brother, if this is your reality now it’s going to get worse if you marry this chick.

I’ve been married for 20 years now, and I made it clear from the very beginning that I’m not the type of guy that’s going to go a couple wks without pussy, and if it wasn’t with you then you bet your ass it’s going to be with someone else who can get the job done! She tried me one night, I walked out the door at 11pm and said “fine, if you don’t want to do it then I’m going to go find some hot blonde at the strip club that’ll suck my dick!” Now, here’s the thing….I hate strip clubs, but I never go against my word because if you do that it’s instilled in their mind that you’re weak and your word ain’t worth shit! I hit the atm up that night in the same neighboring town the club is in so she would see the transaction. I got to the club but I never went inside, sort of just drove around for a while and then went home about 2am. The next day she had her hair done up, skirt on, and put it on me like crazy. In her mind I was more attractive because I didn’t give a fuck and followed through (at least so she thought)

I’ve made it clear I’m on testosterone and I have a high sex drive and I’m not going without it. Not only will I find it someplace else, the fun trips and exciting lifestyle can fall off if the pussy falls off. Ppl can judge me all they want but my marriage is a business deal where we both know our roles, I don’t live by “happy wife happy life,” I live by “take care of your husband and he will take care of you and give you a life other chicks are too stupid to understand how to achieve!” I’ve also made it clear that when her plumbing breaks if she doesn’t go to a doctor and get on HRT then I’ll get it someplace else regardless. I don’t want to be an asshole, but sex has been made very clear on expectations in my house, and it’s not unreasonable to want it about 2-3x per week consistently. The key here is you cannot be a man who can’t provide, you have to level up to a point where you could put yourself on the market tomm and get laid, they know this when they’re with it and you can’t act like a whiny bitch abt it either. The next time this shit happens you need to leave, don’t answer the phone for a couple hours, pull a couple hundred bucks out of the atm, and let her think you hit the strip club. At that point she can either turn her shit around or go kick fucking rocks! A good woman makes a stronger man, all of the weakest men that never get ass are with women who don’t know their fucking role

Lol this

 

[IronJohnDoe]

Porn makes you gay and this could cause more issues within the relationship if she’s not cool with it.

Realistically, he needs to be transparent with her that his needs aren’t being met. There’s also probably some things he could do differently to get the juices flowing (take her out, be more romantic, make more money).

Women also generally don’t want to fuck 8 times a day like a guy with the test levels of 4 mortal men might. Idk what dudes baseline is but at my house less than once a day is a rare occasion and 3 times is a good day. If my needs exceed 3 and she’s unable to provide that then that’s on me for jacking up my libido by shooting drugs in my butt. Oh well.

Or yea if she doesn’t care about porn and you aren’t worried about rotting your soul then just do that

This.

Communication, communication first.

My mrs she is a Saint we do it once a day if we are extremely tired, but usually 2-3 x day.

More than that I jerk it off but she doesn't mind and I can do it while she is asleep in the bed as she doesn't mind (like I said she is a saint)

At times she needs the odd ehm vagina recovery day lol otherwise I turn her peach into a prune lol, but in that case she will happily ehm drink me once or twice and that really does it for me.

Useless to say why I put a ring on that finger quickly hahaha

Edit: I forgot to mention the backdoor option, we use it 2-3 times a week only but hey you can't have it all!

 

[IronJohnDoe]

I take it because I'm a savage

Finally! This! 100% brother!