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Good experiences with women. Do they exist?
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RaddishPork
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Posted at 1pm and gone by 8pm. Fastest ban I’ve ever seen.
AlexDavis43
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I doubt that's the post that earned a ban.
BigDadd7
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That guy was a troll. Anyone that couldn't see that just didn't read enough.
One of the reasons I think we end up in similar situations with women, good or bad, is because we are attracted to a certain type of person. We might have range, but when it really comes down it, most of us are drawn to a certain type.
For some of us, the certain type of chick that we are attracted to always do that same thing the last chick did. You wonder why and then finally figure out, because you keep going after the same type of chick.
Personally, it took me a while to figure out that I kept ending up with these girls that most people would never have known were insecure. They were fun and gorgeous, but man they had some insecurities. As many of you probably know, girls with insecurities do all kinds of dumb shit that makes life difficult.
I switched up my type when I realized I kept going for the same. I found equally beautiful confident women that were just so much easier to get along with and didn’t come with all the drama.
If you keep ending up in the same situation, it might be time to switch it up. You know what they say, the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over while expecting a different result.
For some of us, the certain type of chick that we are attracted to always do that same thing the last chick did. You wonder why and then finally figure out, because you keep going after the same type of chick.
Personally, it took me a while to figure out that I kept ending up with these girls that most people would never have known were insecure. They were fun and gorgeous, but man they had some insecurities. As many of you probably know, girls with insecurities do all kinds of dumb shit that makes life difficult.
I switched up my type when I realized I kept going for the same. I found equally beautiful confident women that were just so much easier to get along with and didn’t come with all the drama.
If you keep ending up in the same situation, it might be time to switch it up. You know what they say, the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over while expecting a different result.
Tbaz192
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I’m pushing 30 yrs old, even that’s just a crazy thought.
But I’ve been thru it all with women, I have a lot of types and things I like or am attracted to. Physically I went for these type of women.
Tatted up, blonde, fit, thicc, goth/emo, bimbo Barbie. Never had a favorite. Just into them all.
And I’ve been cheated on, played, lied to, manipulated etc. you name it. It’s happened. And it always happened from those “damaged” girls/women. Usually daddy issues of course. Or those who aren’t mentally and emotionally mature even at an older age.
Wasn’t until I actually realized the stupid things I’d deal with or just over look in women. All the red flags I’d just shrug off.
Going forward anytime I’d see those red flags I’d back off and move on to the next.
And from doing that. My girl now is completely different & amazing. The only person who has insanely changed my life. And given me a whole new view on everything. She has had my back thru some crazy stuff. And nothing has changed between us.
Just have to pick and choose them right I guess. As hot & freaky horny as the damaged people may be… you’re setting yourself up for a disaster lol
But I’ve been thru it all with women, I have a lot of types and things I like or am attracted to. Physically I went for these type of women.
Tatted up, blonde, fit, thicc, goth/emo, bimbo Barbie. Never had a favorite. Just into them all.
And I’ve been cheated on, played, lied to, manipulated etc. you name it. It’s happened. And it always happened from those “damaged” girls/women. Usually daddy issues of course. Or those who aren’t mentally and emotionally mature even at an older age.
Wasn’t until I actually realized the stupid things I’d deal with or just over look in women. All the red flags I’d just shrug off.
Going forward anytime I’d see those red flags I’d back off and move on to the next.
And from doing that. My girl now is completely different & amazing. The only person who has insanely changed my life. And given me a whole new view on everything. She has had my back thru some crazy stuff. And nothing has changed between us.
Just have to pick and choose them right I guess. As hot & freaky horny as the damaged people may be… you’re setting yourself up for a disaster lol
Tradesman1992
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God blessed me with an amazing wife there’s still good ones out there bro
You can't tell me that. Unless you have some special power. It's about waiting at least 3 yrs before marriage for one.
A person can't hide their true colors indefinitely. If you start seeing red flags wait even longer. Live together a few years , at least, if you see more red flags wait longer. Or end the relationship.
This doesn't look like a good experience
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cousinmuscles
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Just saying, I have heard so much from my wife's friends stories about men, to conclude that as bad as women are, men are pretty much equally bad. If this doesn't align with your social circle of men, then there you have the problem, the category of women you have been chasing is the shitty one, and you have to find ways to come into contact with a different category.
Endeavor Fitness
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For "Tyrone" and "Chad" they exist. Not for you "nice guys". Women love toxic men, until they get worn out and then settle for some suckers. Too many guys look for validation from women. they will walk all over you in a relationship, if that happens.
She can't be your only focus, you have to have outside activities and not drop everything for her every time.
BigDadd7
Member
Stop with this red pill garbage. If you can't meet a good woman, look inward. You're either boring and self centered, or you're attracted to trash. There is an endless supply of good women.
bob357sig
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I’m going to disagree with you here. I will agree with this statement for people below about 45 or so. Not so much when you are older. Very hard to meet any “ good women” near my age ( 55 ) the gyms are full of 20 somethings I have no interest in “ im realistic, not delusional “ the older women are mostly married and taking yoga classes and look at gym rats like me with disgust. I don’t really go to church, grocery stores are full of ghetto, bars and nightclubs are about 20 years behind me, and I feel like a cornball about trying online dating. My favorite co worker to talk to is of course married. I have to remind myself that every frigin day! I’m NOT one of “ those” guys. Soooo, I drudge on with my hopeless life :/ Gym, work, home!!
RockyP
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They exist. Took me nearly 40 years to get to it, but I was lucky enough to find it and not fuck it up (yet). It's lesson in perseverance. Before that, my experiences with women were something out of a scene of Crime and Punishment. Took me a while and some reading / therapy to realize I was attracted to crazy women because they were attractive and great in bed. Took even longer to realize that these features were not even close to being worth the fallout. What a long strange trip it's been. Best advice is to keep an open mind. It can happen anytime, anywhere.
BigDadd7
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It is harder as you get older. Not because women are vapid or shallow, but because the good ones get wifed up or burned out on dating. Before I met my soon to be wife, I met a lot of women through 50+ active groups hiking, paddle boarding, etc. Most of them were fit.
HeatherSwanson
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The average of the hive mind of the west right now is - men are trash, you have fun girl, do whatever makes you happy ect. This combined with the solipsism women have makes them candidates for the inability to take accountability for their poor choices.
I met a women recently who said "all my ex's are naracists", which are 1-2% of the population. That means that this chick has managed to isolate fit hot guys whom is " dateable" that are also 1-2% of the population. The likelihood of that is about the odds of winning the lottery after 4-5 partners, or she's the problem. She knew the clinical definition of naracism, which was quite astounding, still my money is she's the issue.
When men are selecting women they'll look at this chick and see the hour glass, nice skin, pleasant enough demeanour and then pursue without significant investment of time into getting to know the person. Its a case of she touched my peepee and smell good, good enough.
When awash in optionality, you can vet. I have always treated dating like hiring. The coffee date is an interview for position of side chick. Side chick is the interview for position of GF. GF is the interview for move in ect. With the mantra of hire slow, fire fast.
When dealing with anyone in any arena, behavior trumps words. Talk less, watch more. Words cue behavior. I want to see what my employee is going to do with maximum autonomy without instruction.
The results have been better than others around me however not fool proof. Still got divorced. My current woman is amazing. She's all things, because of the defined parameters of the relationship, cross the line its over. No second chances, much like my wife.
I'll never remarry and guard my finances - protect yourself.
Women are amazing and fun. Make yourself the best option to them, they come to you.
I have found that women are the average of their environment, much like men however they are also susceptible to the hive mind more so than men. Think of the beige basic B*tch and the bent knees broken back photo chicks.
The average of the hive mind of the west right now is - men are trash, you have fun girl, do whatever makes you happy ect. This combined with the solipsism women have makes them candidates for the inability to take accountability for their poor choices.
I met a women recently who said "all my ex's are naracists", which are 1-2% of the population. That means that this chick has managed to isolate fit hot guys whom is " dateable" that are also 1-2% of the population. The likelihood of that is about the odds of winning the lottery after 4-5 partners, or she's the problem. She knew the clinical definition of naracism, which was quite astounding, still my money is she's the issue.
When men are selecting women they'll look at this chick and see the hour glass, nice skin, pleasant enough demeanour and then pursue without significant investment of time into getting to know the person. Its a case of she touched my peepee and smell good, good enough.
When awash in optionality, you can vet. I have always treated dating like hiring. The coffee date is an interview for position of side chick. Side chick is the interview for position of GF. GF is the interview for move in ect. With the mantra of hire slow, fire fast.
When dealing with anyone in any arena, behavior trumps words. Talk less, watch more. Words cue behavior. I want to see what my employee is going to do with maximum autonomy without instruction.
The results have been better than others around me however not fool proof. Still got divorced. My current woman is amazing. She's all things, because of the defined parameters of the relationship, cross the line its over. No second chances, much like my wife.
I'll never remarry and guard my finances - protect yourself.
Women are amazing and fun. Make yourself the best option to them, they come to you.
aromatizer
New Member
this exactly. All women are nuts, some more than others. You have to learn to manage your women or she will manage you. By manage I don't mean boss around, I mean work out how to get what you need from a relationship with a women in a way that she is happy to provide.
trtbuilder
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I'm 41, just got divorced a little under 2 years ago and met an awesome 22 year old who is a great person. Some people may judge, but we click perfectly and complement each other well. There's always hope.
