FLAKING ON SECOND DATE AFTER SEX

[IronJohnDoe]

Yeh I get what y'all are saying. was my first new piece in 10 years and I guess I forgot what that felt like and got a lil whipped.

New positions, new sounds new everything. This is going to be a learning process to remember what being single is like.

Just go balls deep right, left and center at every occasion you got, you'll be alright.


Jokes aside, yes coming across needy is bad.
And is true that you want to be chased and not the other way around.

Is completely normal risking getting caught at the first lady that gives you some, however, be single for a while, go out with multiple ladies, have fun, fun dates and great sex.

Then clear your mind.
Being single is also being able to make a space for yourself, hobbies, projects, what do you want? What couldn't you do when you was with your ex?

Time to go out of your comfort zone and make new experiences, new memories.

You need to be at the center of your life now.
Enjoy it for a while, get your own identity back or discover your new self.

Seriously go out there, have fun and make some good choices for your life.

And after some time has passed and you are healed you might want to consider again dating for relationship.


Or you might enjoy too much going balls deep on different ladies every time and be single until you die.

But avoid going back and craving another relationship so soon.
It wouldn't work when is too soon and just do additional damage.

Being single doesn't have to be bad, enjoy it until it last!

 

[QuadFather]

@RekTest come in here brother, join us

 

[Nidus]

Just go balls deep right, left and center at every occasion you got, you'll be alright.


Jokes aside, yes coming across needy is bad.
And is true that you want to be chased and not the other way around.

Is completely normal risking getting caught at the first lady that gives you some, however, be single for a while, go out with multiple ladies, have fun, fun dates and great sex.

Then clear your mind.
Being single is also being able to make a space for yourself, hobbies, projects, what do you want? What couldn't you do when you was with your ex?

Time to go out of your comfort zone and make new experiences, new memories.

You need to be at the center of your life now.
Enjoy it for a while, get your own identity back or discover your new self.

Seriously go out there, have fun and make some good choices for your life.

And after some time has passed and you are healed you might want to consider again dating for relationship.


Or you might enjoy too much going balls deep on different ladies every time and be single until you die.

But avoid going back and craving another relationship so soon.
It wouldn't work when is too soon and just do additional damage.

Being single doesn't have to be bad, enjoy it until it last!

100% This. Before desperately wanting Sex and a relationship people need to start being happy living alone, being at peace and happy with themselves otherwise i feel like a relationship is not going to make things better.

Also coming across needy towards the woman is a no go, you gotta make yourself exclusive, show your value, be passionate and dont underestimate yourself and drown your self-esteem in past bad experiences.

Thats what life is about, living and overcoming challenges, learning and becoming better. As i like to say it: You dont have issues, you just have more work to do, so just be a hardworking MFer as Seth Feroce likes to say!

 

[HeatherSwanson]

Most things I see about flaking on a date are about the first date. I met up with a girl at a bar (ex-coworker) she said how she was always into me and that I am exactly her type. We made out at the bar she came back to my hotel and we hooked up all night. She left the hotel at like 6 am the next day. Since then I've asked her out twice and first excuse was she was hosting galentines day (instagram confirmed this was true), second time was she said she couldn't because she had her kids. Then she says she doesn't have her kids this saturday and wants to hang out then. I follow up today to tell her i'll pick her up at 7 and she replies saying she completely forgot she was supposed to hang with her best friend on saturday. I just replied "fosho" and she never replied.

At this point i'm going to leave it alone but i'm curious why this would happen. It's a big blow to the ego being that I am newly separated from my wife and trying to get back out there. Has me wanting to say F it and just work things out with my wife lol.

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[IronJohnDoe]

100% This. Before desperately wanting Sex and a relationship people need to start being happy living alone, being at peace and happy with themselves otherwise i feel like a relationship is not going to make things better.

Also coming across needy towards the woman is a no go, you gotta make yourself exclusive, show your value, be passionate and dont underestimate yourself and drown your self-esteem in past bad experiences.

Thats what life is about, living and overcoming challenges, learning and becoming better. As i like to say it: You dont have issues, you just have more work to do, so just be a hardworking MFer as Seth Feroce likes to say!

Absolutely.

I came off a bad divorce many years back.

I immediately started getting busy on myself.

Going out, starting hobbies, meeting new people, working on improving myself for me and of course ladies, gym (but I was already going so there was no issue in that department) reading new books and so forth.

The result?

I had some incredible experiences, met some amazing people, travelled a lot and in the end I met my current misses that she is perfect for me (other than being also very hot which is a big plus)

 

[HeatherSwanson]

Absolutely.

I came off a bad divorce many years back.

I immediately started getting busy on myself.

Going out, starting hobbies, meeting new people, working on improving myself for me and of course ladies, gym (but I was already going so there was no issue in that department) reading new books and so forth.

The result?

I had some incredible experiences, met some amazing people, travelled a lot and in the end I met my current misses that she is perfect for me (other than being also very hot which is a big plus)

Similar story on my end. Divorce zeroed me out financially, it was the best money I ever spent. When she was out of the house my quality of life went parabolic. Without the nagging I felt amazing. I devoured about 15-20 evolutionary psychology books, had a good hard long look at what contributed to my failings in the marriage.

Armed with a new outlook on life, a new skillset, and a good attitude, I met this amazing woman... Who's also a smoke show.

I'll never consign myself to the divorce grinder again, marriage in its current form is a wealth extraction tool by the state, shifting the power dynamic.

Ex wife overweight and miserable. Still taking legal shots at me. Its laughable, and pathetic.

 

[IronJohnDoe]

Similar story on my end. Divorce zeroed me out financially, it was the best money I ever spent. When she was out of the house my quality of life went parabolic. Without the nagging I felt amazing. I devoured about 15-20 evolutionary psychology books, had a good hard long look at what contributed to my failings in the marriage.

Armed with a new outlook on life, a new skillset, and a good attitude, I met this amazing woman... Who's also a smoke show.

I'll never consign myself to the divorce grinder again, marriage in its current form is a wealth extraction tool by the state, shifting the power dynamic.

Ex wife overweight and miserable. Still taking legal shots at me. Its laughable, and pathetic.

Mine costed me not 1 but 2 new businesses in South of Spain!
Similar story to yours in the end.

I am glad that you are with the right woman and happy and a better version of yourself brother.

Funnily enough my ex gained 20 lbs hahaha it was me that was motivating her to go to the gym and since we done she aged like 10 years and go chunkier but on the not good side.
She ended up with another Italian (I must have represented my country well lol) but he is short and fat, she remarried and that day I celebrated with my Mrs the end of the vulture era hahaha.

Read loads of psychology and self help books too, some are very insightful and helpful to make you see things on a different angle.

We are lucky also that we got smoking hot mrs, I am always happy to hear a fellow man rising from the bottom and rising to a much better life than before.

 

[HeatherSwanson]

Mine costed me not 1 but 2 new businesses in South of Spain!
Similar story to yours in the end.

I am glad that you are with the right woman and happy and a better version of yourself brother.

Funnily enough my ex gained 20 lbs hahaha it was me that was motivating her to go to the gym and since we done she aged like 10 years and go chunkier but on the not good side.
She ended up with another Italian (I must have represented my country well lol) but he is short and fat, she remarried and that day I celebrated with my Mrs the end of the vulture era hahaha.

Read loads of psychology and self help books too, some are very insightful and helpful to make you see things on a different angle.

We are lucky also that we got smoking hot mrs, I am always happy to hear a fellow man rising from the bottom and rising to a much better life than before.

**big brotherly hug**

WE DID IT!

 

[onlyontrt]

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This guys ex CIA and is an expert in seduction. He's a fucking G. Sounds like you most you might need the information in here. You're welcome.

Bro 2 hours with no time stamps...you didn't tell me I was going to have to watch a movie

 

[HeatherSwanson]

Bro 2 hours with no time stamps...you didn't tell me I was going to have to watch a movie

Listen at 2 times speed while training, easy peasy. Its worth it.

 

[johnlin]

cheers

 

[malfeasance]

this is also true, LOL. the word predator is a bit strong but sure.

I am older than most all of you, and I am going to say that predatory is not a bit strong. Almost all women are predatory about sex. In addition, their fantasies are dark places.

In the twenty first century, they can get away with a lot. And they do.

 

[HeatherSwanson]

I am older than most all of you, and I am going to say that predatory is not a bit strong. Almost all women are predatory about sex. In addition, their fantasies are dark places.

In the twenty first century, they can get away with a lot. And they do.

How dare you point out almost all play rape porn is consumed by women! Its egregious that you'd even consider that "painal" was in the top five search history for women surfing porn sites! After you get past "forced into gangbang" being right up there in the top ten search results, shake your head and realize women are delicate flowers, respectable and say what they mean and mean what they say... Fucking misogynist!

 

[NewGuy756]

It just sounds like she's actually busy and at this point in her life her kids and her girlfriends are her priority.

It's probably best to try not to take it personally but see it as a reflection on where she is at in her life right now.

 

[onlyontrt]

Well boyz not responding actually worked. Almost a month later and she hit me up yesterday!

 

[Cereal masturbator]

Well boyz not responding actually worked. Almost a month later and she hit me up yesterday!

If you reply with anything other that ‘sorry who’s this I don’t have this number saved’ you’ve learnt nothing from the replies here. Good for you though brother !

 

[onlyontrt]

If you reply with anything other that ‘sorry who’s this I don’t have this number saved’ you’ve learnt nothing from the replies here. Good for you though brother !

Well damn…

 

[NewGuy756]

Well damn…

you don't have to play weird mind games with her.

It sounded like you over analyzed her being busy and possibly mistook it for rejection.

You just need to be honest with yourself if you are happy with what she is willing to offer you.

 

[thejumpingsheep]

What the hell is wrong with everyone...

She is a mom? For fucks sake she is busy. You never ignored people when you were busy? I dont even know how many women I ignored back when I was working like a dog. My mind wasn't there. It wasnt mind games or anything like. I was simply busy trying to make money. This women has kids... she is busy raising kids.

 

[Cereal masturbator]

What the hell is wrong with everyone...

She is a mom? For fucks sake she is busy. You never ignored people when you were busy? I dont even know how many women I ignored back when I was working like a dog. My mind wasn't there. It wasnt mind games or anything like. I was simply busy trying to make money. This women has kids... she is busy raising kids.

And that’s why mums stay single or end up with bad men. I don’t want to come second, I don’t want to be put on a list for when I can have your time, sure I don’t have to come first all of the time but even with a kid, make time for OP or let him go, OPs on here so probably works out, looks after himself, he deserves attention, not to accept being ignored for a month when she wants cock again. It’s called having self respect, I know what I’m worth, make the time for me or you’re gonna end with some guy that doesn’t take care of himself, treats you like trash, or you’ll die alone, this isn’t rocket science