Anyone here regret getting married and having kids?

[Jabroni_Meathead]

I'll just say I'm very glad you chose not to have a kid. Jesus.

yea, i dont subscribe to sheep mentality of procreating. I look down upon those that do. Its the most selfish act a human being can do.

Walk around schools... most child bearing women are fat, stretch marks, and like an old beat up car. My sister aged 20 years having one kid.

 

[Mongo966]

yea, i dont subscribe to sheep mentality of procreating. I look down upon those that do. Its the most selfish act a human being can do.

 

[laclark89]

Damn some of u guys have some miserable out looks on starting a family or on marriage and kids. Pretty sad, but I guess if that's how you like to live your life who cares.

Going on a trip with the guys for a few days away from my family just sounds depressing.

It takes a real man to make a family and keep it together and care an provide for it. That's all we were born for as humans find a attractive mate impregnate that mate and protect them for life.
Same as a plant, the only reason for its existence it's to spread That seed.

After 16 years with my wife training her it just gets better over time lol.

Of course a womans going to gain some weight after having a kid they can loose it alot easier than it would be for us to grow our balls or hair back an keep the muscle after running gear for so long.

 

[Jabroni_Meathead]

It takes a real man to make a family and keep it together and care an provide for it. That's all we were born for as humans find a attractive mate impregnate that mate and protect them for life.

I like being rich, traveling the world, having a wife that looks 20 but is 40, and riding sport bikes and fast cars on the autobahn. Enjoy "protecting" your family from social media and only fans because thats all most parents are going to protect them from LOL unless you live in compton or philly.

 

[Jabroni_Meathead]

Of course a womans going to gain some weight after having a kid they can loose it alot easier than it would be for us to grow our balls or hair back an keep the muscle after running gear for so long.

98% of moms at all military bases ive been to prove your theory of losing weight easily wrong.

 

[Benf15harp]

Wait till mid 60’s to marry and have kids.
You’re pretty much toast at that point anyways.

 

[Eddie.]

yea, i dont subscribe to sheep mentality of procreating. I look down upon those that do. Its the most selfish act a human being can do.

Walk around schools... most child bearing women are fat, stretch marks, and like an old beat up car. My sister aged 20 years having one kid.

I'm not saying every man after wedding is the same perfect and alpha as before but women after marriage and especially after having kids i dare to say 95% of them forgetting they're women and just turn into mothers (only).

I guess it's not their fault chasing after a toddler, never sleep and stuff but they're neglect their selves, their hygiene, their look, they neglect YOU and you're mostly there to contribute with the tasks or paying the bills.

At least that's what I'm seeing in real life from friends and relatives. If you guys with a family are not dealing with that kind of stuff consider yourselves lucky..or perhaps to the country i live things are different than your countries.

 

[Jabroni_Meathead]

I guess it's not their fault chasing after a toddler, never sleep and stuff but they're neglect their selves, their hygiene, their look, they neglect YOU and you're mostly there to contribute with the tasks or paying the bills.

At least that's what I'm seeing in real life from friends and relatives.

100% agree with you. Same with my friends and relatives.

 

[laclark89]

I like being rich, traveling the world, having a wife that looks 20 but is 40, and riding sport bikes and fast cars on the autobahn. Enjoy "protecting" your family from social media and only fans because thats all most parents are going to protect them from LOL unless you live in compton or philly.

Anyone who says they're rich are not. I know plenty of people who are really rich, not 1 would ever brag about it.

In your 40s and like to drive fast on the autobahn I would be imberesed. if u ate shit on it no 1 would miss u. hopefully u dont take some innocent people with u. I get u know ur still a 16 year old kid in ur head far from a man so u are not capable of u understanding.

It's pretty sad. I dont know what happened to the days when men were men. Sounds like ur the sheep ur affraid of being a man, real men are sheep dogs.

 

[Mongo966]

I like being rich, traveling the world, having a wife that looks 20 but is 40, and riding sport bikes and fast cars on the autobahn. Enjoy "protecting" your family from social media and only fans because thats all most parents are going to protect them from LOL unless you live in compton or philly.

As long as you're actually enjoying your life. That's all that matters in the end.

 

[Jabroni_Meathead]

It's pretty sad. I dont know what happened to the days when men were men. Sounds like ur the sheep ur affraid of being a man, real men are sheep dogs.

LoL ok.... you got me. Whatever makes you feel good. I brag to show how sad your life is. How you could of been. The man you wished you were.

I am only upper middle class and pay ZERO income taxes to the US and EU. Beach house in NC and new apartment in Germany. Just ordered my fully loaded Audi to drive in Germany while working with/training soldiers. My wife doesnt work and weight trains and cooks/cleans for me while in EU I work a max of 20 hours a week with a six figure tax free income.

your sad life and words couldnt possibly make me feel bad.

 

[patriotmuscle1]

36 yes old 2 kids .. boy is 14 girl is 11.. I have zero regrets having them.. they make my life soo much better!!!
Never married but was with their mother for 15 years.. recently we separated.. I struggled with addiction 2/3 of our relationship.. would habe 2-4 yes sober and accomplish everything to then relapse and lose it all due to getting incarcerated.
Last go I did almost 2 yrs and she supported me while I was in but she also moved on and started seeing someone else.
She luckily isn't an addict.. and the only regrets I have was not being able to do the hard work needed to stay clean sooner.. I did some damage to my kids and her and they didn't deserve any of that.. now it could have been alot worse I did much better than most but still none of it is good you know. I lost my bestfriend and I do regret that.
I'm glad we never actually got married because it would have made all of this alot more complicated. I don't blame her or anyone for the outcome. It was all my doing.
I wish I would have been stronger and more determined to do whatever it took to stay clean alot sooner .. thats my only regret. I regret half assing my recovery and losing my family. Now only see my kids 1 or 2 weekends a month. I'm not there for their day to day life, which has been a difficult adjustment. I'm alive I'm sober and I do everything I can to be there everyday for them in one way or another.. technology has made it possible. I video chat them, text, or call then everyday and try to be as present in their lives as possible..
I know this isn't really on topic.. but it's what I've been going through.. just released from prison Feb 16th.. I was arrest Nov 3rd of 2022..
$100 worth of drugs is all it took. I'm actually thankful that I was arrested because it ended that relapse way sooner then it would have ended on its own and possibly saved my life.
I do t regret my children or their mother. I only regret not putting in the hard work to stay clean/sober much sooner.
If any of you can relate to this.. please know it won't get better until you dedicate yourself 100% to making yourself better. Addiction does not allow anything less.
Happy st. Patrick's day ladies and gents.
No matter what, it could always be worse

 

[Jabroni_Meathead]

real men are sheep dogs.

Keep protecting your family from the horrors of the suburbs LOL loser.

I'lll keep training the real soldiers/wolves to protect you and your family and the world from real threats.

 

[laclark89]

LoL ok.... you got me. Whatever makes you feel good. I brag to show how sad your life is. How you could of been. The man you wished you were.

I am only upper middle class and pay ZERO income taxes to the US and EU. Beach house in NC and apartment in Germany. Just ordered my fully loaded S5 to drive while in Germany training soldiers.

Lol ur not training them to be real me that's for sure.

I guess, i would be considered upper middle class. I'm super happy with it.
Nothing wrong with that.

I have a freind who actually trains soldiers military an contractors, and he makes no more money than me 100k+

 

[Jabroni_Meathead]

I have a freind who actually trains soldiers military an contractors, and he makes no more money than me 100k+

As a contractor training NATO, i make well over $100k and its tax free. Like I said... I have it all without children. Except i hate all of NATO and wish the US would pull out and let them fend for their weak ass selves.

If your friend is in Germany, what company does he work for? I know them all.

 

[laclark89]

Keep protecting your family from the horrors of the suburbs LOL loser.

I'lll keep training the real soldiers/wolves to protect you and your family and the world from real threats.

I'd put money on it ur actually sterile and homosexual, and that chick u have is a tranny. Thats y ur dead set against family lol.

 

[Mongo966]

LoL ok.... you got me. Whatever makes you feel good. I brag to show how sad your life is. How you could of been. The man you wished you were.

I am only upper middle class and pay ZERO income taxes to the US and EU. Beach house in NC and apartment in Germany. Just ordered my fully loaded S5 to drive while in Germany training soldiers. My wife doesnt work and weight trains and cooks/cleans for me while in Germany. I work a max of 20 hours a week with a six figure tax free income.

you sad life and words couldnt possibly make me feel bad.

It all sounds like a lot more fun than what I've got going on here. I can't say it's the life I would want. Not really my personality type I guess. Maybe once in a while for a vacation from my actual life. That'd be pretty awesome lol

 

[laclark89]

As a contractor training NATO, i make well over $100k and its tax free. Like I said... I have it all. Except i hate all of NATO and wish the US would pull out and let them fend for their weak ass selves.

If your friend is in Germany, what company does he work for? I know them all.

100k cash and damn good but far from rich, especially these days.

 

[RaddishPork]

Keep protecting your family from the horrors of the suburbs LOL loser.

I'lll keep training the real soldiers/wolves to protect you and your family and the world from real threats.

it’s honestly a good thing you didn’t procreate. I can’t tell if you’re trolling or coping but everything you’ve said screams “I am scared I can’t protect my family so I’d rather not have a family at all”

And your wife definitely isn’t as hot as you claim. She’s 40+ years old. You are completely delusional if you think she still looks 20.

You’re not nearly as important as you think you are brother. You will die and be forgotten just like everyone else in a couple of decades. The good news is that you won’t leave behind little terrorists who had to grow up with a lunatic of a father.

 

[Jabroni_Meathead]

it’s honestly a good thing you didn’t procreate. I can’t tell if you’re trolling or coping but everything you’ve said screams “I am scared I can’t protect my family so I’d rather not have a family at all”

I been to war and train others to war.... humans are scum. Bringing more humans is not the answer.