I'd be worried about doing anything that may attract gold diggers. It's best to drive a modest or even a crappy car and see if they still want you........
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AbstractMind
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This made me LOL
AbstractMind
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Yep Washington state lol it’s pretty crappy (has decent areas though and parks and Shit)
You should go outside the US. Anywhere. Just for the refreshing experience of a non western woman. Women that are sweet, nice, have no mental issues, no baggage, wife material. Not that I would recommend getting married, but you know what I mean. Once you experience that, you will never put up with crap from western women ever again. But beware, once you open your mind in this way, there's no going back to how it used to be.
You could go to Europe, East Asia etc and you will get treated like a king. Women who like you for you and not for your car or anything else.
The reason why I say this is because some of the things you mentioned about your ex girlfriend told me that you need the experience I wrote about above. Not everyone can do it though, I understand that. But once you do, you will realize you have been straight up getting abused by women like your ex.
AbstractMind
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It’s funny you say that… my ex wife was from Juarez Mexico (not who this post is about)
I was stationed at Fort Bliss on the USA/MX border and met her, dated for a year, married, got her her green card all that. After we moved up to Washington she ended up being psychotic, we split and she drained my bank account.
The girl this post is about, moved in 2 months later (retarded I know lol)
So yeah my experience with foreign women has left me a little … skewed. Lol
Yea that sounds abt right for current online dating, hahaha
The problem is you didn’t go to Asia yet. None of those guys that brought back Asian chicks after Vietnam were getting divorced! That tells me something
Nowadays in Europe is the same as you describe in US. Maybe years ago it was different but now with internet and they see and hear what girl in US preach is the same.
Stay away from Latinas because they are more likely to be psychotic or cause more drama, and while they can be fun, it sounds like you need some peace. I think the best bet is women from most European countries where they have stability and decent wealth. You go to Europe, and insist on paying, and the women will want to pay the bill 50/50 or very often they will demand to pay for you. Not that this is about money but it is an example of how when they are stable enough financially, they aren't even thinking about the money part. European women, are also much more mentally stable. Maybe more boring though but they won't ruin your life, generally.
Asia is also good. The money part is different but the women will treat you so much better.
The problem is that the world is turning into USA lite, where the worst of the western culture is infiltrating into all of these countries and influences the women. But there are still good opportunities.
Hopefully you collected enough BAH and got enough perks to have some fun before the Mexican chick split. Maybe the weather up there broke her mind. That sounds like a nightmare, but you can put it down as another wild life experience.
ハカク
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i’ve read on reddit about people having some great experiences at soaplands in japan, maybe a vacation is in order.
google: tokyo adult guide, for more info on that.
soapland example: y-versailles
google: tokyo adult guide, for more info on that.
soapland example: y-versailles
JuiceJohn
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So true, but there are still plenty of "wife" material girls out there.
Looking for the needle in the haystack. Hard to find someone who is good to keep and like you.
Probably that's what women say about men also
JuiceJohn
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True.
Also, they say you don't need to look for them, they will come into your life.
But when
When she will own 28 cats but then it will be too lateTrue.
Also, they say you don't need to look for them, they will come into your life.
But when
AlwaysHungry
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After painful breakups I'm always at My best physique wise.
I just focus purely bodybuilding.
Just pure all the basic stuff
Eating by the gram weighting everything , resting on point training religiously progressive overload every session.
It's like a therapy to me I'm doing everything perfect so I have fast results and quality so if my results are good my mood is good.
Also thinking and doing all day the training the cooking the calculations the lifting the resting. Doesn't give the mind enough free time to remember the past.
Along the process when I feel semi healed I always have a new gf or woman's in general to keep me good company and sex.
I just focus purely bodybuilding.
Just pure all the basic stuff
Eating by the gram weighting everything , resting on point training religiously progressive overload every session.
It's like a therapy to me I'm doing everything perfect so I have fast results and quality so if my results are good my mood is good.
Also thinking and doing all day the training the cooking the calculations the lifting the resting. Doesn't give the mind enough free time to remember the past.
Along the process when I feel semi healed I always have a new gf or woman's in general to keep me good company and sex.
Hopefully you have recovered by now.
You drive the car. If she wants out, take her home and forget about her. Find another one as soon as possible. One that understands appreciation.
The worst thing you can do is grovel.
AbstractMind
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Yeah to be honest that’s where I’m at with things ONLY exception is I feel like having my hormones amplified would kinda make things worse. So I’m only running 400mg of test per week. I’m thinking about hopping on a legit cycle when I feel ready.
another thing I’m noticing is it’s kind of hard for me to get into the chicks I’ve been on dates with. Even if I’m attracted to them, I feel like I am friendzoning them in my mind.. it’s wierd. It’s just wierd going from being so open to one girl, super comfortable and touchy, and going to a new one where you aren’t sure where it’s gonna go.
I know I’m just complaining and over analyzing but it’s just something I’ve noticed
ハカク
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@ZacharyDwight a valuable lesson from charles bronson
View: https://youtube.com/shorts/ClO4VFxU7QI?feature=share
View: https://youtube.com/shorts/ClO4VFxU7QI?feature=share
You still want your ex back, or at least want to know she wants you back, its over for you... on a serious note, narcissism is a fucking handicap. Better check if you have it and go from there.
AbstractMind
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Shit’ll buff outYou still want your ex back, or at least want to know she wants you back, its over for you... on a serious note, narcissism is a fucking handicap. Better check if you have it and go from there.
