Ever get "Muscle-Haters"?

Insecurity and laziness I think. For most women once they get their guy they want to let themselves go (laziness) but if we keep up looking good then they get insecure because they don't anymore.
I'm a firm believer that in general males can hold their looks a lot longer than females.
 
yea the feeling of being between a rock and a hard place...

I for one used to be fat and hated it
Me just over six months ago, when I started going back to gym after ten years. I despised what I saw in the mirror. I'm not completely happy with what I see now, but it's a certain improvement. My fiancé couldn't understand when just the other day I made a comment about having a long way to go yet, and that I wasn't happy with my body.
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Benny you're exactly right. My girl told me my frame and size is what attracted her to me in the first place but every time I start my prep for a show she gets all pissy and insecure
Mine has commented several times about how I looked perfect when we met. I wasn't a gym rat then, but I was quite active. I weighed about 30lbs less, wasn't real cut but had good muscle tone. Now I'm trying to look that good again and she doesn't want it lol. I can say she doesn't let herself go. She does some yoga, watched diet, and has maintained the dames weight since the day we met.
 
Me just over six months ago, when I started going back to gym after ten years. I despised what I saw in the mirror. I'm not completely happy with what I see now, but it's a certain improvement. My fiancé couldn't understand when just the other day I made a comment about having a long way to go yet, and that I wasn't happy with my body.
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Party belly!
 
Mine has commented several times about how I looked perfect when we met. I wasn't a gym rat then, but I was quite active. I weighed about 30lbs less, wasn't real cut but had good muscle tone. Now I'm trying to look that good again and she doesn't want it lol. I can say she doesn't let herself go. She does some yoga, watched diet, and has maintained the dames weight since the day we met.
Weird... Females impossible to explain :)
 
Women are crazy I gave up trying to understand them a long time ago. "You work to much" take some days off "you are home all day don't you get bored". Not spending every min with them ect... I just do my thing if they like it they are welcome to stay if not they can leave I will have another one tomorrow. As long as I am happy that is what I care about. They will always fine something to bitch about.
 
We got a live one :). You are the black swan then.
not at all my friend I just don't put up with it. Never have never will I was raised by 4 females growing up a father and a brother. Father worked 60 plus hours a week brother and me where out numbered. My mother always told me not to put up with that crazy shit. Women only do that shit because they can get away with it And that was coming from my mother.
 
Yes, they usually want to start talking abt money and their jobs and all of that nonsense and try justifying why bodybuilding is a waste of time.

You aren't cut from the same cloth as these types and they'll never understand. But here is the thing....behind closed doors, after they leave that conversation...you bet your ass they're probably thinking how they can be more like the gym guy they talked to!! It's the one thing money can't buy, and it pisses them off. U can't buy sweat equity
 
Yes, they usually want to start talking abt money and their jobs and all of that nonsense and try justifying why bodybuilding is a waste of time.

You aren't cut from the same cloth as these types and they'll never understand. But here is the thing....behind closed doors, after they leave that conversation...you bet your ass they're probably thinking how they can be more like the gym guy they talked to!! It's the one thing money can't buy, and it pisses them off. U can't buy sweat equity
Also to add, most of these ppl really are actors and not wealthy ppl or even that smart to begin with. The true life winners appreciate the passion ppl have for something and its interesrint to listen to for them. They have nothing to prove
 
In the gym I work out at,, there are 2 groups of people. 'Bodybuilders' and 'fitness enthusiasts/proponents'. It is a virtual 'us and them' poisonous attitude. There is always a fitness enthusiast/proponent starting shit with a bodybuilder or complaining of a bodybuilder on an almost daily basis at the gym. (The fitness enthusiast/proponents even steel bar clips, arm cable pull up bars, cable ropes, pulley clips, smith machine safety clips, etc to despite the bodybuilders at the gym I work out at). And whats really frustrating about this is that management will almost always take the side of the fitness enthusiast/proponent over the bodybuilder. Sometimes the bodybuilder even gets shafted from the gym from a fitness enthusiast. And what is really ironic of this scenario is that bodybuilders pretty much never start shit with fitness enthusiasts.

There is no doubt that fitness enthusiasts/proponents are jealous of the bodybuilders,,, that is why they carry so much hate in them. Maybe if the fitness enthusiasts/proponents started to follow the training edicate of the bodybuilders and apply it,, then they wouldn't have so much hate inside of them
 
Most guys today go to the gym to socialize and have fun and also because of cheap membership.
In my hometown there's and oldschool bodybuilding gym with equipments like y see on bloods n guts etc. They go only "bodybuilders" and guys who want to he bodybuilders. No woman in the gym we had only one who was a pornatar. We need more gyms like this around the world
 
My home gym is straight for a rural area but it's not like when I worked out at colleges or in big cities. Buncha kids doing arms and not eating, older dudes just trying to stay in shape and the house wives. Other than a older cats on TRT I'm the only one that's ever ran gear I think. The closest to real bodybuilders are dudes that played sports in high school and learned proper fundamentals.
 
Be careful
someone may call the cops on you
as you just admitted using steroids.

What's up with steroid talk at the gyms? A few of the younger guys have asked me about orals and I usually end the conversation pretty quick because it's just not that type of gym plus the owner went to school with my current parole officer, lol. Also I'm the only asshole with a GPS tether on his ankle so it looks bad.

However on weekends up north I work out at a pretty nice gym in a VERY affluent (for michigan) area. The owner has won state shows and is very accomplished, competed on the level where it's obvious AAS are needed. I couldn't believe it when I heard him sitting at the front desk talking about Deca, I figured the gym owners would want all that on the low key.
 
I think the way you carry yourself influences these attitudes a lot.

I have been told that I have a resting serial killer blank stare, so even though I’m not the biggest of guys, when people look at me and I look back at them, their reaction is to look away from me and at the ground.

Had trouble working at customer service jobs in the past because of this...
 
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