Ever get "Muscle-Haters"?

Muscle hatering is not limited to younger people. Most guys my age are cool with the way I look and many times I have heard them say they wish they had the drive to muscle up. The women in my age range are the worst. For example, 2 years ago we were at a unit reunion and my wife was in front of two women that were standing next to their overweight, alcoholic husbands. She heard the women bashing my "unnatural build". She listened for awhile and then turned to them with, "I resent your ugly comments regarding my husband. Although I am very aware the two of you can't take your eyes off of him and your remarks are rooted in your hopeless plight in life. I go home with a god and you leave with these geezers who haven't seen their dicks in 20 years.

My wife is normally the type of person who would never say a mean word to anyone, but she had a couple of drinks that night and couldn't resist. One of the men was an old CO of mine for awhile. I kinda felt bad for them, but far more proud of her. My former CO came up to me later and in a stern voice said my wife had embarrassed his wife. Then he started laughing and said he loved it.

The great part of this, we stayed in touch and he requested advice on getting back to form. He has stopped drinking, went on trt and has lost 48 pounds of lard. He started running again and says he thanks my wife for kick in the ass.
 
Muscle hatering is not limited to younger people. Most guys my age are cool with the way I look and many times I have heard them say they wish they had the drive to muscle up. The women in my age range are the worst. For example, 2 years ago we were at a unit reunion and my wife was in front of two women that were standing next to their overweight, alcoholic husbands. She heard the women bashing my "unnatural build". She listened for awhile and then turned to them with, "I resent your ugly comments regarding my husband. Although I am very aware the two of you can't take your eyes off of him and your remarks are rooted in your hopeless plight in life. I go home with a god and you leave with these geezers who haven't seen their dicks in 20 years.

My wife is normally the type of person who would never say a mean word to anyone, but she had a couple of drinks that night and couldn't resist. One of the men was an old CO of mine for awhile. I kinda felt bad for them, but far more proud of her. My former CO came up to me later and in a stern voice said my wife had embarrassed his wife. Then he started laughing and said he loved it.

The great part of this, we stayed in touch and he requested advice on getting back to form. He has stopped drinking, went on trt and has lost 48 pounds of lard. He started running again and says he thanks my wife for kick in the ass.

This is an awesome story! I am glad something good came out of it. I wonder if those two who were trying to shame me have changed at all.
 
@SmallsMalone did they trash talk you too?;)
From what I have been told the other guy's wife is still pissed at my wife (who cares) and he is still a slob. The CO's wife reluctantly admitted that she thought I was hot and grudgingly appreciated my wife's smack down on her. The CO and his wife are going to be down here in May and he wants us to hook up. Should be interesting.
 
i was tanning the other day and there was a hold up at the computer so waiting in this line for 5-10minutes and this couple behind me displaying excessive PDA for multiple minutes. they musta been no more than an arms length away from me so i finally turned around and said "do u fucken mind?" and both of them immediately stopped and the guy looks at me n starts saying some shit. i was pissed as fuck at this point so i silenced him hit him with a simple "shut the fuck up, do not speak to me" n then went like shhhh..dude went from making out with his girl to trying to challenge me to a timid puppy dog in a matter of 15 seconds. after that his girl says "sheeeesh lay off the steroids juicehead" i turn around and said..."i can go all night sweetheart.. i dont get tired" n winked at her..her bf didnt even bother..ended up waiting in line for about 10 more minutes after that not a peep from them and the other girl waiting in line let out a big sigh of relief after i deadened that weak shit. haters gonna hate. either let em know you'll fuck them/fuck them up for 12 rounds or like @Demondosage said see beyond the frailness and lack of understanding to the freak lifestyle
 
Exactly why do you care what a fatass and an skinny bitch think about you anyway... People will be prejudiced for unimaginable stuff. Often I get asked why drink milk if there is beer, living healthy obviously can be setting a few mentard alarms off lol...
 
Plus you can just tell him he's jealous, be all like youre just mad that I have superior genetics and workout twice a month 'tops'
 
Plus you can just tell him he's jealous, be all like youre just mad that I have superior genetics and workout twice a month 'tops'

i usually do this if any nerd/dork type asks me questions about working out or any nutrition in general. u know the type of ppl that will believe anything u tell them regardless of how stupid it is as long as you sound confident saying it.
 
The Arnold quote is great. Kinda relates to when guys ask me for advice on something training/nutrition related and then stop me and say "oh well I don't wana be too big" like it's that easy. Pisses me off but I just smile and say I don't think you'll have that problem
 
Only muscle hater I have is the ole lady. She told me again today, she doesn't want me tanning, doesn't want me shaving or waxing body hair, and doesn't like six pack abs. Truthfully I think she is insecure. Oh there was the talking horse that didn't like me as well. He laughed at me when I told him my dick was bigger, and then cried when I proved it.
 
Only muscle hater I have is the ole lady. She told me again today, she doesn't want me tanning, doesn't want me shaving or waxing body hair, and doesn't like six pack abs. Truthfully I think she is insecure. Oh there was the talking horse that didn't like me as well. He laughed at me when I told him my dick was bigger, and then cried when I proved it.
Yes. Certainly sounds Insecure to me
 
People hate what they don't understand. I don't understand how some people don't care about their body.
Ever get the "I'd rather enjoy my life" or "what's the point of eating healthy and working out when you could be hit by a bus tomorrow?"
This IS what I enjoy. If I get hit by a bus tomorrow, at least I know that I tried my best to live longer, and I'll be leaving a good looking corpse. I'd rather not waste what little time I may have, drinking and feeling like shit.
 
Just respond to them,"or you could die at age 65 after years of riding one of those little scooters because your fat ass wore out your unhealthy knees, and years of wear diapers because your digestive system was screwed by the unhealthy eating habits. But don't worry, you will probably welcome the early death after years of no sex and no ability to do anything but watch daytime soaps."
 
Women tend to prefer their men fat and happy lol
Lol. I don't get it with some women. When they are single they are attracted to the buff guys, but then later don't want their guy buff. I know it's the idea that they fear other women being attracted to their man, but why can't they just be happy their man looks good. I'm happy when my woman looks good, and I see it as a good thing when other men like how she looks.
 
Until they start eyeball fucking some other dude that's in great shape. Sometimes it's a no win situation so do what makes you happy
yea the feeling of being between a rock and a hard place...

I for one used to be fat and hated it
 
Benny you're exactly right. My girl told me my frame and size is what attracted her to me in the first place but every time I start my prep for a show she gets all pissy and insecure
 
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