"lift it until you cant anymore but lower the weight if you cant get 8-12."
That's pretty good advice. I'd just be careful not to go to failure on every set. It's very fatiguing and not necessarily the best strategy long term as you will need to take frequent deloads. I try to go failure on my top set first then do some back off sets to near failure with 85% of the weight. This keeps my CNS fresh and being enhanced I don't need to deload nearly as much. Maybe every 8 weeks and I'm good.
o all the noise about rep slowing being indicative of failure is whats tripping me up. on 90% of movements that i do, say im doing 12 reps. 1-10 will look virtually identical, 11 will slow a tiny bit, 12 will slow a decent amt, and 13 will either not budge or i cant get past half the ROM.
Does this vary across lifts or is it pretty typical regardless of exercise/muscle group? I know on bench press I'm the same way. The first 5 feel great then 6 is a struggle, 7 starts to break me and 8 is a grind. 9 would be abject mechanical failure. But we're talking heavy weight here.
But take something like a lat pull down and I can grind out partials (still effective on this particular exercise) for 10 more reps after mechanical failure.
Don't laugh but creatine can help here if you don't already use it. I take 5 grams pre and 5 grams post. Helps me eek out just 1-2 more reps.
Another thing you could try is just simply drop the weight a little and see how many reps you can get. You won't harm yourself if you end up with 20 instead of 12. In fact, one tip might be don't even count the reps until they start to slow down. Consider the easy ones warm ups that don't count.
my go-to rectification is drop sets, rest-pause and/or rep goals.
love me some drops sets and myo reps. These achieve exactly what I've been saying. The more time you spend in that near-failure zone the greater the stimulus.
and if you read all of this i appreciate you taking the time. if you've got the time and desire to share, id be interested in your thoughts about that.
Hell ya man. I love talking shop. I basically have no life but work and gym life haha.
for some reason my body doesnt like "ease" into failure and it just abruptly happens so ive been worried im just a little bitch who has never actually trained to failure.
the mind does prefer to protect itself from pain. I'm not saying you're a bitch but it could be that some primal fear in the back of your mind is preventing you from pushing as hard as you need to be. I always tell my clients on a final set "if I don't see your face turning purple and your eyes popping out of your head I'm going to keep edging you for more reps".
They usually fear disappointing me more than the pain so this tactic works for in person training haha.
My point is, you might have some mental block that you need to psych yourself out of. If you truly believe it's not a muscular limitation I would look to maybe meditation and learning to calm your mind. Work on your mind muscle connection. Once you get more in tune with your body pushing to failure becomes automatic. You will know when you're firing on all cylinders.
i know this isnt the best place for this side chat, and if you read all of this i appreciate you taking the time. if you've got the time and desire to share, id be interested in your thoughts about that.
I'm sure OP could learn a thing or two from this side bar, doubt he'll mind. And you're welcome bro, like I said, I love talking about this shit and sharing ideas.