I know these fees and issues are discouraging, however, bitcoin/crypto is absolutely a great route to explore, not just for sending $$ to sources but investing as well..
Someone on here just said it best, "bitcoin shouldnt be used to transfer etc but rather best used a buy and hold tool" or "hodl" (some may get that)
Some sources have realized this and have already began accepting other forms of crypto(ltc, eth, etc).
This is still "new"...the technology within this is advancing at an extremely fast rate...all the kinks, hiccups etc are and will work themselves out...
This is not a bubble, fad etc, bitcoin and crypto is here to stay. Its just a waiting game at this point...
Two things i want to mention or bring up here...
Recently, retail giant Amazon registered crypto domains...although they say they have no plans on accepting crypto now, if more interest demands it, eventually they might accept bitcoin as payment. Can you imagine what the price of btc will skyrocket up to then???
Amazon just bought three domain names related to cryptocurrency
Also, american express and santander bank just signed a deal with the ripple network...this should show you that banks are realizing the potential here and adapting..
American Express, Santander team up with Ripple for cross-border payments via blockchain
The point of this post is to basically say that while these issues are present, just give it time...these companies are striving to make this market consumer friendly as that is what keeps their purpose alive; to make $$$