uh oh ..i think im in trouble

ren

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im slowly falling out of love with my girlfriend..and in love with a girl i work with..i dont want this to happen ..but what the hell can i do to stop it?!!

ren
 
ren said:
im slowly falling out of love with my girlfriend..and in love with a girl i work with..i dont want this to happen ..but what the hell can i do to stop it?!!

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chop your balls off..lol
Id say give it some time..dont rush, it ,maybe just a lust thing or something else..just wait it out see if your feelings become stronger for this person then u have to make a decision. Now thats 100$ u can mail it WU.
 
ren.... hopefully she is as hot as your girlfriend is now..... Man if it is meant to be it is meant to be.... gotta look to who you think you can live with longer. its all bullshit in the end anyways..... but you might just have a case of the holidays where you want some strange or something. give it time.
 
bro I do this all the time... it is always a lust infacutation thing...give it some time and what will be ,, will be...
 
sounds like some good advice above. didn't u just talk about how cool your current gf is a couple of weeks ago? or was that someone else?
 
ren said:
im slowly falling out of love with my girlfriend..and in love with a girl i work with..i dont want this to happen ..but what the hell can i do to stop it?!!

ren
ren, get your head out of your ass bro! Your girl is a definite hottie and you have e ven said yourself that she is the sweetest thing. I would recommend that you limit (or eliminate) contact with this other girl. Its pretty easy to become infatuated with another girl, but just remember who has stuck by you for a year. Dont be a dumbass. ;)
 
Bob Smith said:
ren, get your head out of your ass bro! Your girl is a definite hottie and you have e ven said yourself that she is the sweetest thing. I would recommend that you limit (or eliminate) contact with this other girl. Its pretty easy to become infatuated with another girl, but just remember who has stuck by you for a year. Dont be a dumbass. ;)

Great words of advice. Just stay away from the temptation cause that all it is. Your in a lust phase that will pass. Stay truthful to you girl if she's really that great.

ThePatriot
 
ThePatriot said:
Great words of advice. Just stay away from the temptation cause that all it is. Your in a lust phase that will pass. Stay truthful to you girl if she's really that great.

ThePatriot
You need to go with your heart on this one...but like the bro said....your in a lust phase....and the only that will heal that is time bro
 
Do what you gotta do bro. Whatever you do don't cheat, if you feel you need to date this other girl to see if it truly is what you say, then take a break from your current relationship. You could be and in my opinion you are wrong about being in love with this girl at your work. But you could very well be falling out of love with your current girl for whatever reason. How hot they are really shouldn't have much to do with your situation, remember the saying bro's "show me the hottest chick in the world, I'll show you a guy that's tired of fuckin' her."

I accept cash check, visa or mastercard. wisdom
 
Although I am wishing the best for you, just in case things don't work out, take lots of naked pics of her that you can post for us......j/k, good luck

Actually I think that should be a new forum.......Naked Pictures of my cunt ex-girlfriend
 
i understand where you all are coming from..but trust me its not lust. Ive slowly been falling in love with this girl i work with (veronica). I love my current gf very much but it just seems like its going nowhere and im getting real bored, real fast. I would never cheat on any gf, but I just dont know what to do at this point. It wasnt love at first sight with this chick veronica..but I almost feel closer to her than my own gf at this point

damn cute little hispanic chick too!

ren
 
I'm afraid I have the same problem you have Ren. Only I'm not in love with my wife of 8 years. We're barely friends anymore. She's hot as hell but we just aren't meant to be together. I have a 6 year old and that complicates things. I have a best friend at work that happens to be a married female without kids. We've known each other for 2 1/2 years and our friendship only grows stronger. We're soul mates. We date every chance we get. We both want to be with each other but are too leary to make that final committment. I'm all fucked up from this and so is she. Something's gonna have to happen soon for us or it's all just gonna backfire on us.

You're young and not married yet. You should be best friends with the girl you spend time with. If your current GF isn't doing it for you, take a break as suggested. If this new girl turns your crank like you say, fucking go for it. You only go around this world one time. Take some risks if that's what it takes to be happy.

Perhaps if you don't take this oppertunity to date this new girl, you could miss out on the "one" of your lifetime. Yes, the perfect girl does exist. You just have to keep your eyes open to find her.

Good luck bro
Cronk
AKA Wannabee
 
ren, some of the guys are giving good advice. First and foremost, don't cheat. You will lose the respect and friendship of your current gf and the one that you go to will lose some trust in you as well.

You need to seriously think about your feelings for your gf. I'd say that you need to separate yourself from the other chick (veronica) until you do. Don't let your friendship and feelings for the other girl affect your relationship with your gf. Your gf takes priority; she's been there for you and deserves at least that, for you to try to work it out and/or resolve the issues between the two of you. She should know what's going on and should be made aware of your growing boredom. If things don't work out with her, they don't work out, but don't jump out of one relationship with a nice, sweet, sexy girl for another relationship, even if the next girl is equally sweet and sexy. Resolve one relationship BEFORE even think about starting another.
 
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If the grass looks greener on the other side of the fence, fertilize your own damn lawn!
 
Is the other woman reciprocating the same feelings? Or, is she at least letting you know she's on the same page? I've noticed that girls have a thing for a man that's taken b/c they like the challenge. As soon as you move on to the other girl, she's on to the next sucker.

HC210
 
hardcore210 said:
Is the other woman reciprocating the same feelings? Or, is she at least letting you know she's on the same page? I've noticed that girls have a thing for a man that's taken b/c they like the challenge. As soon as you move on to the other girl, she's on to the next sucker.

HC210

she definitely reciprocates the feelings..weve never actually talked about it ..but only because she feels funny because i have a gf. We just click very well. Shes a bartender i work with for about a year now and i actually look forward to going to work just so i can talk to her. We also go out to the diner after work sometimes and then feel really guilty when i get home to my gf even though nothing physical has happened.

And for the people that said to stay away from her until i find out whats gonna happen with my gf: I cant ..i work with her and im not gonna quit my job over it

ren
 

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