I can shed some light: The group buy started more than 2 months ago. Problems developed w/the source, HK and also some shippers, etc. And then Stretch disappeared for a while.
He was dealing w/ some heavy shit (Dad, GF etc.) What many here feel, is that yes, he is going through some pretty major shit, but why can't he take 5 minutes to post up, and re-assure everyone. Many of us had $1k plus hanging out there. In this game, I have learned to be patient. I just forget about even sending the money, and when it comes I am surprised.
However, the longest I have ever waited is 4 weeks. Of course a group buy can get complicated (especially if the source is dragging their feet). I would give a g. buy 2 more weeks. At the 6 week mark I better get an explanation.
Also, I was getting a significant discount every month. W/ the discount my monthly amount was 1.3, which would bring a $2.5k Gym value. Not saying I am selling gear, but if I were, $1.2k in monthly profit would be pretty darn good.