Got banned from my gym over someone else’s actions. Not even mad — just done with the clowns.

[akilcelen]

Just change gym,if u payed for a full year membership thats a bit different even if its not an huge amount i would be angry if it was only your brother fault and try to talk about it with the staff and say that your btother tried to steal ur identity without ur will
I dont know but if they banned u without a real reason you could sue them or at least threat them to bc its not probably worth it

I fixed the refund issue. Like I didn't like my energy early in the day. I was stressed as fuck, honestly I gotta calm down a little bit lol. I'm just gonna find a new gym and follow the purpose. I also stole your time, hope that doesn't make me a thief too but ye

 

[b3n]

1. Settle the issue with your brother

2. Quit the drugs or have your e2/bloodwork done

Happy end

 

[bossetti]

I fixed the refund issue. Like I didn't like my energy early in the day. I was stressed as fuck, honestly I gotta calm down a little bit lol. I'm just gonna find a new gym and follow the purpose. I also stole your time, hope that doesn't make me a thief too but ye

Nah dont worry lol

 

[BigDadd7]

It’s interesting seeing how some of you spend their time here lol. You remind me of myself, about six years ago. Carry on

Were you not a thief six years ago?

 

[akilcelen]

Were you not a thief six years ago

I was being toxic

 

[Ciaranko]

I’m honestly overwhelmed right now and just trying to stay focused and find a way to release all the negative energy this has built up. My yearly subscription was canceled, and from what I’ve seen, there’s no effort being made to refund me. I have a lot going on in my life already, and on top of everything, I’m now dealing with this unnecessary situation...

While a refund might sound fair, the contract you sign when you sign up to the gym might say something like "In the event someone else tries to use your subscription to enter the gym we reserve the right to cancel it without refund"

 

[akilcelen]

While a refund might sound fair, the contract you sign when you sign up to the gym might say something like "In the event someone else tries to use your subscription to enter the gym we reserve the right to cancel it without refund"

Yes, I know the policies of a company can be cruel and it just how it works. But in my case, I will get a refund for the months in which I won't be able to enter the gym

 

[verylargeshoes]

I honestly don’t know what kind of vibe I give off. I’m a foreigner living in Belgium, originally from Turkey. Normally, I don’t have any problems with people. I just show up, get in, get the shit done. But yeah, some people don’t like that. They prefer staying in their comfort zones, and when they see someone working hard, it seems to bother them.

So all joking and kidding aside, it does seem like they weren't willing to give you the benefit of the doubt. It's worth thinking about why. Maybe they're prejudiced against foreigners. Maybe they feel threatened by your swagger and hypermasculinity. Maybe it's something else. Whatever it is, you should work on building a positive relationship at your next gym, and pick a place that has a good vibe for you. That's one of the most important places in your life.

 

[BigDadd7]

I was being toxic

And now you're not?

 

[Grandpa]

Why is this even on Meso? This seems like a Reddit post.

 

[akilcelen]

So all joking and kidding aside, it does seem like they weren't willing to give you the benefit of the doubt. It's worth thinking about why. Maybe they're prejudiced against foreigners. Maybe they feel threatened by your swagger and hypermasculinity. Maybe it's something else. Whatever it is, you should work on building a positive relationship at your next gym, and pick a place that has a good vibe for you. That's one of the most important places in your life

I like your opinion. I need to respect the authority the staff hold in places like at the gym or anywhere in life till I become successful ( I have a plan for this) and make immense amount of money and have so much control that I don't have to deal with this bullshit stuff ever again. I'm working for it every fucking day...

 

[Tdeck81]

Maybe take up journaling?

Are you trying to get him banned from staples too?

 

[akilcelen]

And now you're not?

Now things are different lol.

 

[phenominal34]

Just to clarify the situation:

My brother tried to sneak into the gym while I was already inside training. We don’t live together, but he knew I had an account and used my login without me knowing. He got caught at the entrance and never made it inside.

Two days later, my QR code stopped working. The staff banned me, probably because they didn’t like my presence ( They came up with multiple false claims.)They’ve got their own little kingdom in there, and I guess real confidence and masculinity made them uncomfortable

STFU alrrady, you keep adding to the story more lies. For you to think this is anyone but your brothers fault is ignorant. Your brother should pay for your new membership

 

[akilcelen]

STFU alrrady, you keep adding to the story more lies. For you to think this is anyone but your brothers fault is ignorant. Your brother should pay for your new membership

I already took care of that. That mf recently became way too sneaky

 

[Nunya]

This just made my morning lol

 

[RandallFlagg]

I like your opinion. I need to respect the authority the staff hold in places like at the gym or anywhere in life till I become successful ( I have a plan for this) and make immense amount of money and have so much control that I don't have to deal with this bullshit stuff ever again. I'm working for it every fucking day...

....or you could just respect the authority held in places you visit even IF you become successful.

You're gonna be real disappointed if you're just putting on a performative arts show of respect until you make "immense amount of money" and have "control."

That level of money is like Bezos money (not too many of those running around) and even he still loses 50% when the marriage fails.

...and the path to that amount of money definitely doesn't involve playing victim and flexing in random Internet posts.

I should just delete this and let the thread die it's natural death but I'm having a mildly shitty morning. We'll see if the filter flags something I said and that'll be the universe talking to me. Ok, enough journaling for one morning.

 

[readalot]

I'm having a mildly shitty morning

LFG Brother!

 

[akilcelen]

....or you could just respect the authority held in places you visit even IF you become successful.

You're gonna be real disappointed if you're just putting on a performative arts show of respect until you make "immense amount of money" and have "control."

That level of money is like Bezos money (not too many of those running around) and even he still loses 50% when the marriage fails.

...and the path to that amount of money definitely doesn't involve playing victim and flexing in random Internet posts.

I should just delete this and let the thread die it's natural death but I'm having a mildly shitty morning. We'll see if the filter flags something I said and that'll be the universe talking to me. Ok, enough journaling for one morning.

Ooh man, you hit a point I’ve been thinking about for over a year now. But to my understanding: success doesn’t come from how much you flex at the gym or how respectfully you act just to look good, it goes way deeper than that.

What really matters is getting better at the things that actually move the main shit. That means sharpening your technical skills (understanding how to build things, solving real problems, and creating solid systems.) Just as important is developing your entrepreneurial sense: knowing how to craft the right product, how to present it in a way that grabs attention, and how to make it stick.

That other stuff (showing respect, carrying yourself with confidence, improving your presence) it definitely matters too. It helps build your communication skills and makes connecting with people smoother, which is a huge asset long-term.

I’m not ignoring that side of things (I know I’ll have to work on it eventually.) It’s just not the main priority right now. First, I’m focused on building the core skills that drive real impact.

 

[BigDadd7]

Ooh man, you hit a point I’ve been thinking about for over a year now. But to my understanding: success doesn’t come from how much you flex at the gym or how respectfully you act just to look good, it goes way deeper than that.

What really matters is getting better at the things that actually move the main shit. That means sharpening your technical skills (understanding how to build things, solving real problems, and creating solid systems.) Just as important is developing your entrepreneurial sense: knowing how to craft the right product, how to present it in a way that grabs attention, and how to make it stick.

That other stuff (showing respect, carrying yourself with confidence, improving your presence) it definitely matters too. It helps build your communication skills and makes connecting with people smoother, which is a huge asset long-term.

I’m not ignoring that side of things (I know I’ll have to work on it eventually.) It’s just not the main priority right now. First, I’m focused on building the core skills that drive real impact.

Respect comes when you respect yourself and others. You don't need to be rich and powerful to be respected. Just curious, how old are you?