Got banned from my gym over someone else’s actions. Not even mad — just done with the clowns.

Posting this probably won’t change anything, but just to clarify:
Calling it theft isn’t accurate. My brother logged into my account once without my permission. He never entered the gym, and I wasn’t involved. Framing that as stealing is simply incorrect.

It’s clear some of you process things differently trying to sound tough by dramatizing the situation instead of looking at it objectively. That’s not how I operate. I prefer logic over some mental pattern stuff.

Additional claims were made about my behavior that were never brought to my attention during my membership. If they had been, I would’ve responded directly.

It’s unfortunate the situation wasn’t handled with basic communication, but it’s done. I’ll move on and find another gym.
 
Posting this probably won’t change anything, but just to clarify:
Calling it theft isn’t accurate. My brother logged into my account once without my permission. He never entered the gym, and I wasn’t involved. Framing that as stealing is simply incorrect.

That does seem different. What did he use the account for? How would they even know?

That’s not how I operate. I prefer logic over some mental pattern stuff.
Okayyyy.
Additional claims were made about my behavior that were never brought to my attention during my membership. If they had been, I would’ve responded directly.

Well don’t leave us hanging. You brought the story this far…give the people the juicy details we crave.

BTW, I should have said - looking good. Good job on changing your body and life. I hope you find a new home for your lifting soon.
 
That does seem different. What did he use the account for? How would they even know?


Okayyyy.


Well don’t leave us hanging. You brought the story this far…give the people the juicy details we crave.

BTW, I should have said - looking good. Good job on changing your body and life. I hope you find a new home for your lifting soon.
bro he contradicted himself but 4 posts of mine didnt go through! this filter man you guys are missing the gold
 
Posting this probably won’t change anything, but just to clarify:
Calling it theft isn’t accurate. My brother logged into my account once without my permission. He never entered the gym, and I wasn’t involved. Framing that as stealing is simply incorrect.

It’s clear some of you process things differently trying to sound tough by dramatizing the situation instead of looking at it objectively. That’s not how I operate. I prefer logic over some mental pattern stuff.

Additional claims were made about my behavior that were never brought to my attention during my membership. If they had been, I would’ve responded directly.

It’s unfortunate the situation wasn’t handled with basic communication, but it’s done. I’ll move on and find another gym.
Maybe take up journaling?
 
Man what do you have to do to get blocked by Meso?!? Did you use some unforgivable slur, like “natty”?
get creative enough with the insults and its the only reason im chill on meso. i always have to rewrite my messages. tried to rewrite this one 4 times but i cant say dogsh1!
 
Just to clarify the situation:

My brother tried to sneak into the gym while I was already inside training. We don’t live together, but he knew I had an account and used my login without me knowing. He got caught at the entrance and never made it inside.

Two days later, my QR code stopped working. The staff banned me, probably because they didn’t like my presence ( They came up with multiple false claims.)They’ve got their own little kingdom in there, and I guess real confidence and masculinity made them uncomfortable
 
Just to clarify the situation:

My brother tried to sneak into the gym while I was already inside training. We don’t live together, but he knew I had an account and used my login without me knowing. He got caught at the entrance and never made it inside.

Two days later, my QR code stopped working. The staff banned me, probably because they didn’t like my presence ( They came up with multiple false claims.)They’ve got their own little kingdom in there, and I guess real confidence and masculinity made them uncomfortable
Just change gym,if u payed for a full year membership thats a bit different even if its not an huge amount i would be angry if it was only your brother fault and try to talk about it with the staff and say that your btother tried to steal ur identity without ur will
I dont know but if they banned u without a real reason you could sue them or at least threat them to bc its not probably worth it
 
Maybe take up journaling?
Daaaamn.

Scene: the fighter folds from a hard right to the gut and lands prone on the canvas. Blood runs in rivulets down a face no longer recognizably human and pools around his head. The formerly riotous crowd falls silent, sobered by the gruesome sight. His opponent yells at him with a mixture of disgust and pity in his voice to stay down, but he’s so punch drunk he doesn’t even know he’s beaten. He staggers to his feet and reaches out once more to click “Post reply”…
 
bro he contradicted himself but 4 posts of mine didnt go through! this filter man you guys are missing the gold
what I figured out, and how I worked around it --> If you start the filter , sip through what 'may' have pulled the trigger, then delete your post and start a fresh one with the 'edit' . It's like when the filter 'goes off' it's locked on to your post, and it does not matter how you edit that mf'er ..
 
My brother tried to sneak into the gym while I was already inside training. We don’t live together, but he knew I had an account and used my login without me knowing. He got caught at the entrance and never made it inside.
I see. So it’s only attempted theft, from their point of view. Unfortunate.
I guess real confidence and masculinity made them uncomfortable
Whatever it is you’re giving off, it’s definitely giving me some feelings.

P.S. Thanks for starting this thread, it’s really livened up my day.
 
what I figured out, and how I worked around it --> If you start the filter , sip through what 'may' have pulled the trigger, then delete your post and start a fresh one with the 'edit' . It's like when the filter 'goes off' it's locked on to your post, and it does not matter how you edit that mf'er ..
hopefully after posting for 5 mins i can call this guy dogshit liar thief now!
 
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I see. So it’s only attempted theft, from their point of view. Unfortunate.

Whatever it is you’re giving off, it’s definitely giving me some feelings.

P.S. Thanks for starting this thread, it’s really livened up my day.
I honestly don’t know what kind of vibe I give off. I’m a foreigner living in Belgium, originally from Turkey. Normally, I don’t have any problems with people. I just show up, get in, get the shit done. But yeah, some people don’t like that. They prefer staying in their comfort zones, and when they see someone working hard, it seems to bother them.

I low-key already felt that some of the staff at the gym were starting to act weird, but ye, that’s gone now. I’m not going to change who I am just to get some validation. As long as I’m making progress, that’s what keeps me going. At the end of the day, it’s the outcome that matters not the emotions along the way so.
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