malfeasance
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A year later: Is your wife on board and pulling the yoke in the same direction as you, or is she still fucking you over and pulling against your work and impeding your progress?
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Logan44551
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We're on the verge of divorce unfortunately.
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Logan44551
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Yeah, two. It's been a rough couple months. Hopefully we can sort it out. I'm not very optimistic though.
malfeasance
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It's tough to sort out at that point. Men tend to think if they cave and give in and are nicer and give her what she wants, then it can be made to work. All that crap that feminists taught male children for the last 2-3 generations does not work. Women need to be lead (they do not admit this, and do not really know it, but it is a HUGE turnoff to see a man weak).
It is almost cliche - Why is he unacceptable for romance? "He's too nice."
They need a leader. Strong silent type. Man on a mission. Somebody to respect.
The opposite is somebody to hold in contempt.
At the point of her declaring divorce (another thing two or three generations of feminists have bestowed on us, thanks, MOMs!), however, she is too far gone, usually, to rescue things. Try to be the natural leader of the family, a man to respect, and it is too late. She will interpret everything you do negatively, because she already holds you in contempt. It is tough to change things if this has not been the dynamic in the relationship all along.
Do what you can, while being aware that there is probably nothing you can do. Divorce is really tough on kids. Don't let anybody feed you bullshit about it. Divorce harms the children.
It is almost cliche - Why is he unacceptable for romance? "He's too nice."
They need a leader. Strong silent type. Man on a mission. Somebody to respect.
The opposite is somebody to hold in contempt.
At the point of her declaring divorce (another thing two or three generations of feminists have bestowed on us, thanks, MOMs!), however, she is too far gone, usually, to rescue things. Try to be the natural leader of the family, a man to respect, and it is too late. She will interpret everything you do negatively, because she already holds you in contempt. It is tough to change things if this has not been the dynamic in the relationship all along.
Do what you can, while being aware that there is probably nothing you can do. Divorce is really tough on kids. Don't let anybody feed you bullshit about it. Divorce harms the children.
